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I understand that i will never understand11/13/2022 ![]() I need to check myself if I feel hateful towards someone. Today, if I feel judgmental towards someone, I try not to talk negatively of them, although I am not perfect. However, before I matured and was very much a broken and insecure person, other people's behavior would incite anger, jealousy, sadness, or some other negative feeling, but I assure you, almost always it had nothing to do with them. Today I do not participate in gossip and try not to talk negatively of anyone if they are not around. Through my own experience during times of my life when I was judgmental and unforgiving, I can say that my own feelings had little to do with the other person and more to do with my insecurities. I think that their judgmental actions are actually a projection of their own insecurities. I believe that people are judgmental because whatever quality they see in someone else speaks to how they feel about themselves in some way. You are absolutely not the only one who dislikes that. They don't have to understand goodness to judge it evil and attack. Victory at any cost, the ends justify the means. Unity trumps correctness.Įvil - when your mission is to destroy goodness, you only need to understand that your target is anything good. A United army marching an indirect route trumps a highly fractured army scattered to the four winds attacking the right target directly. Politics - to advance your agenda, sometimes you just have to get enough people on your side, even if you know you are wrong. Arrogance - if you think too highly of yourself, you won't realize what you don't understand or how important it is. Survival - better to judge with limited information than ignore a threat and die, or miss a vital opportunity to dominate. Judgement is the lack of wanting to understand along with being close minded. This in turn leads to judgement of those that don’t think like you, look like you or act like you. What you base your ideas upon is only within a small circle which leaves a lot of ideas and people out of your scope. When you harshly judge others, that is a sign that you don’t see very far outside your own personal opinions. Judgement also is closely linked to being close minded. It is sometimes easier to base our opinions on first impressions and then move on from there. People many times make snap calls and don’t want to take the time to fully see something for what it is. Why do people judge? Because they've too much time.Because they make assumptions before fully understanding the person or action. So, many people passed by, they've so much contempt for that dog-poop yet no one ever apologizes.Īll aunties vanished like spectators from a cricket match when India needs 100 in last 10 overs and Binny was the last batsman. Girl : Because now I know, if I change myself then I end up like you. You're a shame.Īunt 5 : So, now will you change yourself? You're a slut.Īunt 3 : What's this you wear all the time? You reduce it by few inches and you're naked.Īunt 4 : And I had seen you waiting in your boyfriend's car when he was buying beer. One day, some aunts decided to put in their two pennyworth.Īunt 2 : I've seen your boyfriend drop you here late night. ![]()
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